Category: It’s all about me

When moms make time for dreams

Posted on February 19, 2020 by

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I can scroll through years of photos, and the same ones keep showing up. Badly-lit, boring pictures of laptops. Sometimes it’s a laptop sitting on my knees, with taekwondo classes or dance practices happening in the background. Other times, it’s a laptop sitting on…

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What it’s been like going off my antidepressants

Posted on January 22, 2020 by

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Heather Laura Clarke

I went off my antidepressants, and now I’m working on myself. It’s uncomfortable as hell. It’s the most difficult DIY project of my life.

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Mom’s mental load

Posted on January 14, 2020 by

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Playing this silly, wonderful game is a way to temporarily pause the intensity of my thoughts and let my brain float away on something fun and frivolous — like decorating a themed nursery for baby Sim twins, or designing a Victorian mansion with a haunted graveyard out back.

Category: It's all about me, The Mom Scene

I’m Heather Laura Clarke. I’m journalist and blogger in beautiful Nova Scotia, I have an 9-year-old son and a 7-year-old daughter, I married my high school sweetheart, and this is the story of my handmade life.

I have depression and anxiety, and I fight like hell every day to keep it from taking over my life. Making things isn’t just a hobby — it’s part of what keeps me alive.

Whether I’m decorating a room, busting out my power tools to build furniture, getting muddy in the pottery studio, sewing clothes for my kids, or cross-stitching a swear word, I’m all about using my creativity to craft a life I love.

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This is my view every morning. The kids wake up at their usual time (6:30) because they still go to bed at the same time (7:30) as Before (otherwise known as Before The Virus). . They’re allowed on screens first thing, just like they were Before. So when I come downstairs to make my cup of tea, it’s silent. They’re both wearing headphones, engrossed in their computers. . I sip my tea. I watch them from my perch at the counter. For those few quiet minutes, it feels like Before. . Except then ... there is no school bus to hurry off to catch. There is no school. There’s just an endless amount of minutes waiting to be filled with home-schooling and activities and questions and chatter. . The first part of the morning is quiet. It’s like Before. It’s everything after that that feels like After. . ⚪️⚪️⚪️
I’ve started doing daily art lessons with the kids, as we all follow along with YouTube videos. Yesterday was chalk pastel sunsets and today was oil pastel apples. I think it’s been helping me even more than it’s helping them.
I got laid off today, along with 40% of the company. . I’m sad and scared, but it was what had to be done. I’m a writer/editor — I’m not an essential service. I don’t even write hard news — I write nice, light, happy “good news” custom content features. . If businesses can’t keep their doors open, they certainly can’t afford for our team to write (awesome, effective) custom content articles and (beautiful glossy) custom magazine. I get it. I’m just disappointed. I will miss telling their stories. . I hope this is temporary. I hope I get to go back when this is all over. I really love the work, and we were doing SO WELL (like record-breaking well) just last month. Just two weeks ago, actually. Everything changed shockingly fast. . I work with a team of wonderful people (most of whom have also been laid off) and we’re all gutted about this. But we understand. No one saw this coming, and lots of industries have been hit hard. . PLEASE support the SaltWire papers that continue to be published. The Chronicle Herald. The Cape Breton Post. The Guardian/Journal Pioneer. The Telegram. Subscriptions are discounted — buy one? Click on articles. Share them. . Show your support for local news, so there are jobs for me and my friends when this is over. We all just want to go back. . . —30—
I’ve been sewing face masks, and you can, too! . There’s a serious mask shortage and although these aren’t as good as the medical-grade one, they’re better than nothing. I’m going to make batches to donate to our local hospital, which I’ve heard is one of the dedicated Covid-19 facilities. . Full video tutorial is on my Facebook page! “Heather Laura Clarke: Journalist & Blogger.” Original free pattern is from @buttoncounter! #buttoncountermask
I wrote a new blog post this morning about the power of thought work. . I truly think it’s the only thing that’s going to hell right now. Not panic-buying. Not freaking out. Not turning on each other. . Managing our thoughts. Which dictates how we feel. Which controls how we act. . Everything else is out of our control. Everything. And it always has been. . NEW POST ON THE BLOG ❤️
I needed this laugh. Thanks, kids! 😂 . They swear it’s a monkey. With a long “tail.” And a “fart cloud.” I’ll see what I want to see. . 😂😂😂
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My Top Posts
DIY dog crate cover
Easy DIY sofa tables
DIY monkey bars
How to re-cover patio furniture cushions
How to make a backyard water blob
Build your own slide-out pantry
Sew a reversible circle skirt
Quilts from baby clothes
DIY hanging bars
How to sew a cozy nap mat
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