Weekly re-cap of pregnancy #2: Weeks 33, 34
Week 33 (March 10-16)
& Week 34 (March 17-23)
Got behind on my blogging, so I’m cramming two weeks’ worth of re-cap into one. This whole pregnancy-when-you-have-a-toddler-and-work-from-home gig is … hard!
Symptoms: Heartburn — still taking the daily max of four pills, and it’s mostly OK. Mostly. Still getting very short of breath at times, and experiencing back pain the evenings, but it’s not too terrible for the most part. The worst symptom over the last two weeks has been the constant have-to-pee sensation — and then only peeing a teeny tiny bit. Frustrating!
Body changes: Stomach looks low at certain angles, but also seems kind of high — and super-round. I’m quite basketball-y this time around, which is cool. No real change, except it’s just probably getting bigger by the second.
Baby movement: LOTS of movement. I am constantly doubling over and kind of groaning from the force of the kicks — especially when she gets me in the bladder. Most of it is concentrated on my right side, and I often feel jutting-out parts that I think are knees or feet.
Cravings: Plain potato chips. Water. Peanut-butter crackers.
Aversions: Don’t feel like eating most of the time. It’s a chore. And it feels like I can’t fit any food in my stomach.
High point: More playdates with great friends! A few of my friends are even pregnant, so there’s always tons to talk about. The toddler gets super-excited when anyone comes over or when we go to someone’s house. We’re social butterflies, y’all!
Low point: Finding it harder and harder to focus on my freelance work. I often get asked how I have the motivation to work so much (when the toddler naps or is in bed for the night), and I answer that if you’re only getting paid for what you do, motivation is not an issue. Lately it’s just been hard to work when I’m really tired or uncomfortable. Strange to think that if I still worked full-time, I’d be going off work for maternity leave at this point.
How does this week compare to Week 33 and Week 34 during pregnancy #1? Well, it’s finally started happening — the swelling. I can press my fingers into my ankles, and I get little Silly Putty dents. They’re very minor, though, and my ankles cankles/legs don’t look any different, so it’s nothing like last time. Apparently my blood pressure is similarly low, though — even lower this time (90/50). Luckily, in pregnancy, that’s a great thing.
Baby preparation: My lovely Mamsie threw me a little shower for her friends/neighbours and some family, so we were able to knock a few more things off our list. The only things I still need are some more washcloths, soothers, a sling/wrap, and a new nasal aspirator. Oh, and I plan on packing the hospital bags this week. Although last time that was a bit of a pain, because I kept needing to wear things and then re-wash and re-pack them. Oh well — doing it anyway.
Speech delays, hearing loss, fluid in the ears, and other toddler fun
Just to re-cap …
Remember when we took the toddler to the hearing test? And learned a few things, like …
- Both of his eardrums aren’t moving
- He possibly has fluid in both ears
- He has a mild hearing loss ( >40 dec.)
- The hearing loss is probably caused by the fluid
- Go to a doctor, because he probably has an ear infection! Go now!
So the next day, we took him to a walk-in clinic, and learned a few more things …
- Yes, he has an ear infection
- Give him antibiotics for a week
- Go see your family doctor
So the toddler saw his family doctor last Friday, and we learned a few more things:
- His ear infection is gone
- There is a tiny bit of fluid left in one ear
- The other ear has no fluid at all
Oh! But wait! Then we saw the ENT a week later, on Monday, and learned a few MORE things:
- He never HAD an ear infection
- There is fluid in BOTH ears
- Fluid could definitely be causing his hearing loss
Here’s what we know:
- Yes, he has a mild hearing loss
- Yes, he has fluid in both ears
- Yes, he may need tubes or grommets if the fluid doesn’t go away on its own
I was very impressed by the ENT. He was smart and to-the-point, and Darling Husband and I both liked him very much.
While I kind of wished he had just said, “Yes, let’s get some tubes in that kid’s ears!” — because I strongly feel he has a persistent fluid problem — he said we will wait two months to see if it clears up on his own. Which is smart, I suppose, since he’s never even seen him before.
We have a follow-up already booked with the ENT for May 28, when the toddler will have his ears checked to see if the fluid is still there. If it is, he’ll probably get tubes. If it’s gone, the ENT will perform a hearing test right there to see if his hearing loss is gone.
I’m feeling much better about the whole situation, partially from the string of nonstop doctor visits being over (for now), and partially because the toddler’s speech has really been picking up. Here’s an updated list of what he’s been saying …
- Yeah!
- Yeth (yes)
- Uhhhh-oooooh (uh-oh)
- Ahhhhhhhhp (up)
- Haaaaaal (help)
- Hi
- Mo (more)
- Baw (ball)
- Dada
- MumMumMum
- No
- Maaaap (map)
- Hug
- Bub (bubble)
He’s also been even better with his signs lately, adding new ones like “soup” and “wake up” and “scared” and “rain” and “pancakes.” He’s at a great age to pick things up from his Signing Time DVDs. Whenever they do a sign, he’s automatically trying to copy it.
With all these new words, Darling Husband and I have discovered what it’s like to have a verbal child. It’s … louder, for sure. His endless shrieks of “No!” and “Mo, mo, more!” are very strange to us, since he’s always been so quiet. It’s like, wait, why did we want him to talk?
We joke about the newfound volume problem, but really, we’re as proud as punch whenever he comes out with a word instead of a sign.
Even if the word is “No.”
Dear Baby Girl
Dear Baby Girl,
I can’t believe I’m almost 33 weeks pregnant, and have yet to write you a single letter.
I feel guilty because I wrote more letters for your big brother, and I don’t want you to feel like I love you any less. I think because when I was pregnant with him, I had no real concept of what to expect. And now that he’s already *here* and you’re not (yet), it is making it harder to wrap my head around the idea of you.
I did, however, write a lot about you way before I was even pregnant with you. I even dreamed about you. I often think about who you will look like. I keep picturing you as a clone of your brother, except with a bow in your hair — and a lot of pink clothes — because that’s all I know. I also imagine you acting just like him. I keep forgetting that you may look — and act — absolutely nothing like your brother. You will be your own person that we’ll need to get to know.
Your brother looked exactly like Daddy until he was about a year old, and then he started to look like both of us. Will you look like me from the beginning, with dark hair and dark eyes? Will you have the same crooked pinkies that I have (and passed along to your brother)? Will you have Daddy’s nose and feet (also passed along to your brother)?
Your room is ready (and it’s beautiful, if I do say so myself). We have clothes and diapers and tiny socks. We have a double-stroller, and your brother has been practicing by pushing dolls around in it (and using it as a jungle gym). It’s very sweet to see him try to swaddle them in scraps of fabric I’ve given him. He is trying very hard to master it, so he will be able to help take care of you.
We’ve been ready for you for a while, and that makes it even harder to wait to meet you. We know the date that will probably be your birthday (April 25), but you could always surprise us and come earlier than that.
Every day it becomes a little more real, but it still feels a bit abstract. Even though I know you’re coming, I can’t fully visualize it. It won’t be real until the moment you’re here in the world, and I get to hold you. Then it will sink in that I have a daughter — that I have you.
I can’t wait.
Love, Mommy
xoxoxo
Baby steps
After finding out last week that the toddler failed a hearing test — and has a minor hearing loss — I’ve been thinking about his hearing and speech OFTEN (to put it mildly).
I have noticed that two words are really improving, though. Over the last two weeks, he’s been saying “Yeah!” a lot more when I ask him a question.
“Do you want some juice?”
“Yeah!”
“Are you hungry?”
“Yeah!”
He used to say “Yetthhhh” sometimes, but his “Yeah!” is very peppy and clear. It’s so blissfully normal that I feel VERY happy whenever he says it.
His other improvement is trying (very hard) to say “more.” He’s only EVER just signed “more,” but over the last week he’s been saying “Mo” when he signs it!
It doesn’t sound like much, but it’s really a huge step for him. His little face puckers into an exaggerated “O” shape and he puts his fingertips together and pipes up, “Mo!”
He has also dropped several words, though, so here is his current list:
- Yeah
- Yeth (yes)
- Mo (more)
Pulllpull (purple)Ah-pullll (apple)- Uhhhh (uh-oh)
- Allllldddun (all done)
- Ahhhhhhhhp (up)
It’s disappointing that he seems to have stopped saying his two two-syllable words (apple and purple), but at least we’ve added two (more and yeah).
I’ve started signing more since the appointment last week, and he’s responded by signing even more, too. He confused the heck out of the playground coordinators when he started signing “water” — they thought he was shushing someone!
He’ll be seeing his family doctor on Friday, so I’m hoping a referral to an ENT (Ear Nose Throat) doctor is in the cards. In the meantime, we’ll just keep signing, and trying to encourage as many spoken words as we can.
Weekly re-cap of pregnancy #2: Week 32
Week 32
(March 3-9)
Symptoms: Heartburn has become a lot more manageable, providing I remember to take one pill with breakfast, one with lunch, and two with dinner (gotta love that four is the daily max — it’s perfect). I’m very accustomed to the shortness of breath, but it still surprises me sometimes, to be breathing hard and clutching my stomach at the top of two flights of stairs. The baseball-jammed-in-the-centre-of-my-back pain is a huge, well, PAIN. It’s making it harder to sit in my desk chair and work, or to handle car-rides.
Body changes: Stomach is still low. Boobs are still … ugh. It makes me sad that they’re not as big as they were last time, but I’m also not as chunky lush as I was during my last pregnancy, so I suppose it’s a good thing.
Baby movement: Evenings are Baby Girl’s dance party time, apparently. Sometimes it’s so intense and uncomfortable that I can’t sleep until she calms down. I feel like Baby Boy’s movements were stronger but less frequent, and Baby Girl’s are more constant and sharp.
Cravings: Homemade muffins with butter. Uh … can’t think of anything else.
Aversions: I usually don’t feel like eating anything anymore. It was like that towards the end last time.
High point: Some lovely playdates! They’re my absolute favourite way to spend the morning, because the toddler is happy to have friends to play with, and I’m happy to have friends to chat with. Win-win!
Low point: Taking the toddler for his hearing test, and getting some unexpected results.
How does this week compare to Week 32 during pregnancy #1? Still no swelling (which was a HUGE issue last time), although sometimes my legs/ankles look a little … thick … when I examine them at night. I can’t press my fingers into them like Silly Putty (like last time), so I don’t think they’re swollen. Just chunky?
Baby preparation: I always leave the door of the nursery open, just so I can walk by and admire it — and occassionally sneak in to sigh over the sweet little baby outfits and shoes. Everything’s done — even the double-stroller is set up (the toddler is using it as a playground in the family room) — and even though we need a few things (changing pad, Playard sheets, etc.) I’m not stressing about it. Yet.
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