I’m totally jinxing this by writing it, but our nine-year-old son and seven-year-old get along very well.
Of course, they fight sometimes, especially at night when they’re tired and cranky, but overall they enjoy spending time together and we’re glad they (mostly) enjoy each other’s company.

Is it because they’re close in age? Is it because we have one boy and one girl? Is it because of how we parent them? NO IDEA!
But in this week’s parenting column, I’m chatting about five specific things I do to ensure our son and daughter are best buddies, from scheduling hacks to sneaky ultimatums.
The last time I had a drink, my oldest child had just turned one. He’s nine and a half now, so I’ve been a non-drinker for eight and a half years.
You know who does drink alcohol?
Just. About. Everyone.

From cringe-worthy conversations about sobriety to what I wish more people knew about what “not drinking” feels like, here are five things I have learned in almost nine years of being a non-drinker …
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I’ve given furniture “haircuts” to make it fit into a smaller space, but I think this was the first time I’ve taken a piece of furniture and “grown it” into a larger piece.
It all started when I was standing at our kitchen peninsula, staring at the back wall of our dining area and trying to decide what I could do to like it more. You can see this wall from almost our entire main level — from the front door, from the kitchen, from the living room — which is the curse of open-concept living. It needed to be a showstopping wall.
The wall was pretty blah, with just our hutch and our son’s computer desk.

We received our hutch as a hand-me-down when we moved in eight years ago, and it’s looked great since we painted it white.

While I still loved the way the hutch looked, there was something “off” I couldn’t pinpoint. There was all this wasted space between the top of the hutch and the ceiling, and I just wanted to … I don’t know, stretch it up!
Hmm.
I’ve heard of people raising their kitchen cabinets up and hanging them directly under the ceiling (I begged, but Handy Husband said no) because it “extends the eye” and makes the room feel taller.


… on pin this post and come back to it later!

I got home yesterday from BlogJam 2019’s Preserve Retreat at Oak Island just BURSTING with so many new ideas and so much inspiration — not just for my blog, but for my writing career and my life in general.
I’ve been attending this conference since it started five years ago, and it’s always a highlight of the fall for me.

I spent the weekend tweeting away all of the great advice I heard, so I thought I’d put the highlights together in a post so you can all read about what some of the biggest and best bloggers in the region have to say about everything from making money to live video.
Let’s dive in …
Michelle Doucette from East Coast Food Stories did a great presentation on flat-lay photography and I came away with tips that I can’t wait to implement.
Use laminate floor tiles, wallpaper, small pieces of beadboard, etc. to get different backdrops for flat-lays and any up-close photography. WHAT A GENIUS IDEA! Start the car because I’m off to Kent to buy flooring samples!
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Our kids spent the day zooming down water slides at Atlantic Splash Adventure, but I wasn’t waiting at the bottom to take their picture.
They spent a week taking swimming lessons and earned badges without me ever watching from the sidelines.
They made friends I’ve never met, and went on field trips to places I’ve never been.
I’ve worked from home since our son was born, but it’s evolved from very casual freelance — writing during his nap — to a full-time job that keeps me busy 40+ hours a week.
Our son is now nine and our daughter is seven, heading into Grade 4 and Grade 2. While working from home means I could, in theory, keep them at home with me every day, I can’t write or edit or do telephone interviews in the midst of total chaos.
I’ve gradually signed the kids up for more day camps each summer, as my workload has increased, and this summer we were up to six full weeks of camp. While it certainly helped me stay on top of my work, earn a living and maintain my sanity, it also made me a little sad.