Category: The Mom Scene

Little boys with long hair

Posted on January 20, 2020 by

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He didn’t ask why the nice older man had thought he was a girl. He knew why. He’s nine and a half now and he hasn’t cut his hair since just before his eighth birthday.

Category: Our Son, Parenting, The Mom Scene

Mom’s mental load

Posted on January 14, 2020 by

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Playing this silly, wonderful game is a way to temporarily pause the intensity of my thoughts and let my brain float away on something fun and frivolous — like decorating a themed nursery for baby Sim twins, or designing a Victorian mansion with a haunted graveyard out back.

Category: It's all about me, The Mom Scene

Many moms struggle with guilt, comparison at Christmas

Posted on December 19, 2019 by

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They say comparison is the thief of joy, and no one understands that more than a mother at Christmastime. Moms with less money might compare themselves to moms with more money, and feel guilty their children won’t be getting the same big-ticket items under…

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I’m Heather Laura Clarke. I’m journalist and blogger in beautiful Nova Scotia, I have an 9-year-old son and a 7-year-old daughter, I married my high school sweetheart, and this is the story of my handmade life.

I have depression and anxiety, and I fight like hell every day to keep it from taking over my life. Making things isn’t just a hobby — it’s part of what keeps me alive.

Whether I’m decorating a room, busting out my power tools to build furniture, getting muddy in the pottery studio, sewing clothes for my kids, or cross-stitching a swear word, I’m all about using my creativity to craft a life I love.

@HFXHeather on Instagram
“The biggest thing going off antidepressants taught me is that we’re all DIY projects — at least, we all should be. If we’re not actively working on being the best, truest, happiest versions of ourselves, then what are we even doing?” . . ❤️ NEW POST ON THE BLOG! ❤️ . . All about going off antidepressants You guys have been asking for it! So many truths. So many feels. HeathersHandmadeLife.com #mentalhealth #anxiety #depression #antidepressants #mentalwellness #deepwork #innerchildwork #acoa #allthefeelings I can finally show you the gorgggg King-sized HARRY POTTER quilt I sewed for our son for Christmas! His bed is only a twin now but I wanted to make sure this would grow with him. Plus, nothing better than a huge cozy quilt! Hit up the blog today because I’m sharing the full tutorial, including all of the fabric sources and the SUPER simple block layout. #quilting #quilt #quilts #handmade #handquilted #harrypotter #harrypotterquilt #harrypotterfans #harrypotterbedroom My son has long hair. It’s thick and silky and gorgeous and it flips out naturally at the ends. He loves his hair. I love his hair. But some other people? Well, they call him a girl. There’s a NEW POST on the blog today, if you’d like to read more about hair (his and also mine) and gender and annoying people and also why none of it matters. 💙💙💙 #parenting #boyswithlonghair #boyswithlonghairrock #boyswithlonghairdontcare 🎶 I always feel like 🎶 🎶 Somebody’s in my tea 🎶 Kitty-cat mug I made in pottery! 🐱 The mama cat is the handle and I sculpted a wee kitten and stuck it to the bottom of the mug as a “fun surprise” for unsuspecting tea-drinkers who suddenly spot something in their mug. 😉 #pottery #handmade #handmademug #potterymug #potterymugs #catmug #handthrownpottery The way this girl loves slime, it’s no wonder she loves Magic Mud (or “Oobleck” as the kids today apparently call it). Perfect indoor snow day activity. Mix three cups cornstarch with 1 1/2 cups water (approx.) and a few drops of food colouring to get a gloppy goop that you can pick up like a solid and then it then instantly to a liquid. My mom used to make it for me and my sister and it’s still really fun. Way better than slime because of the way it changes. Just don’t ask me to explain the science behind it lol. #snowday #again #snowdayfun #indooractivities #handmade #oobleck #magicmud #messy #butnottoomessy When you walk into a project area in your dining room that looks like a @craftsmanca photo shoot except you actually staged nothing! 😂 Can’t wait to show you guys how this BIGGGGGG project is turning out! #DIY #woodworking #furniture #DIYfurniture #buildingfurniture #design #custom #customfurniture #craftsman
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My Top Posts
DIY dog crate cover
Easy DIY sofa tables
What it's been like going off my antidepressants
Build your own slide-out pantry
Our board game wall
Super easy quilt top for beginners
How to make a backyard water blob
How to sew a cozy nap mat
Anne of Green Gables quilt
Upcycled wood and metal lockers
PREGNANCY blog posts
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