The end-of-summer panic

I shouldn’t be surprised, really, because I’m struck by the same feeling at the end of every summer: The little burst of panic that it’s almost over and I haven’t done everything I wanted to do or, more honestly, everything I felt I should be doing with the kids.

It’s this time of year when I typically organize a spur-of-the-moment trip to the beach, overwhelmed by guilt because I haven’t taken them yet. (Luckily, they have gone to the beach many times this summer with my mother. She is a sun person, unlike her basement-dwelling vampire daughter.)

If it weren’t for my mom, they wouldn’t get NEARLY as many beach days like this.

If I let myself really launch into a bad mom shame spiral, I could add that we haven’t been to the Shubenacadie Wildlife Park at all this summer. (In fact, I can’t remember the last time we went …?)

We didn’t do a session of swimming lessons, even though I had the best intentions. (I signed them up for a few weeks of camp without realizing it was going to screw up any chance of also fitting in swimming.)

My husband tried to take them strawberry picking, but the place was closed, so they bought some at the roadside stand instead. He didn’t set up the pool we bought and used last summer and now it’s too late. We meant to build a new bonfire pit, and it just didn’t happen. He, um, did set up the sprinkler for them once!

We wanted to take them to Prince Edward Island (sigh … again), or even to Magic Mountain for the day, but we’re in a season of sacrifice (better known as scrimping) and decided those weren’t in the budget. Maybe next summer.

Ugh. I always do this at the end of the summer. I beat myself up thinking of all of the fun things we didn’t do, rather than focusing on what we did do, so let’s try that again …

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2 Comments on “The end-of-summer panic

  1. Thank you so much for this wonderful and timely article. I do this every year with my daughter. Why do we feel that we have to have our kids’ time programmed to the max? My daughter is happy just to hang out drawing her day away. She loves drawing and her imagination soars. We swam in my parent’s pool, stayed in a cottage on the beach for a week with my parents, went to Upper Clement’s Park for the day with a friend, had sleep overs with her friends, and had lots of bonfires. Like you, I need to focus on the activities we did do and be thankful that we made some memories.

    • Thank you for the comment, Sherri! It sounds like you guys had an amazing summer, too — we haven’t done Upper Clement’s yet but I have great memories of being there as a kid.

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